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lessons on SoCal: the crazy freeways

January 25, 2013

Having gotten my drivers license just months before leaving for college, living in a college town that didn’t require a car and then moving to the mother of all pedestrian cities, New York, I haven’t had that many opportunities to drive. And frankly, I don’t even like driving. I like my feet and bicycles and subways. All that’s different now that we’re San Diego. I need to learn to love it. Or at least tolerate it.

So far, I’m getting used to cruising around neighborhoods and downtown — craning your neck past the obstructed view to see if you can pull out takes getting used to! — but I’ve yet to hit the freeways. I’ve been relying on Eaman for that so far. Here’s the dilemma: Once you take an exit, you immediately have to change lanes because the next exit is upon you. The other dilemma is you can’t always stay in the right (slow) lane: That lane’s often only for the next exit and the next lanes over are only for another highway. So you’re forced to switch over multiple lanes to get to where you need to be. Oh and the third dilemma: People are aggressive drivers over here! Where’s the mellow, man?

I’m not really looking forward to jumping on the freeway. I know I’ll get used to it, but right now, I sense it’ll be much like this clip below from Clueless.

Watch, have a happy Friday and send me some words of driving inspiration if you have any!

Life

welcome! why don’t you sit and stay a while?

January 16, 2013

Back in 2009 I started a food blog. Then from 2011 to 2012, I traveled to 13 countries and documented life abroad on a travel blog. Now here I am with a new blog that combines a little of the food blog with a little of the travel blog with a wordplay on Claire Danes’ other show in one place to share with you what it’s like for me and Eaman (my boyfriend of 7 years) to move to San Diego with virtually no safety net. No jobs lined up, no huge network of family or friends and basically no familiarity with Southern California. I mean, we even sent a deposit for an apartment and just sort of crossed our fingers it wasn’t a scam. (It worked out.) We love a good adventure, can you tell?

We drove nearly 3,000 miles from New Jersey (where I’m from) to San Diego.

We came to San Diego in 2010 during a short weekend trip from New York City, and it was love at first sight. The idea of coming back here more permanently was always on the back burner, so after we got back from our travels — when we realized the idea of becoming lifelong backpackers didn’t really suit our personalities or hygiene requirements — there wasn’t really anywhere else we wanted to live. We figured we would just fit our careers into our lives instead of the other way around.

And moving here on a whim is, in a way, a lovely extension of our backpacking trip. What better way to get to know our new home than to use everything we learned from our travels? Walk the streets (or drive on the freeways, I guess), talk to locals, eat at hole-in-the-wall spots and constantly push ourselves to look for new and unique things. So that’s my goal for this blog: a guide to food, outdoors, style and culture not just in San Diego, but in Southern California as a whole, and a peek at how we ourselves are fitting into a completely new place.

I’ll be posting every Monday, Wednesday and Friday, so…see you Friday!